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Some people are taken by surprise by my decision to be a life coach. And that would include close friends. And yet to others, it makes complete sense.
I am still getting used to saying ‘I am a life coach.’ It gives me a strange tingling sensation.
With some anxiety at times. But I know it is good for my soul.
‘What is a fear of living? It’s being preeminently afraid of dying. It is not doing what you came here to do, out of timidity and spinelessness.
The antidote is to take full responsibility for yourself – for the time you take up and the space you occupy.
If you don’t know what you’re here to do, then just do some good.’
– Maya Angelou
I have prepared for this moment all my life. And it could have began way earlier. But fear kept me captive. I was always worried that I am not good enough.
Even though I spent 7 years running my lifestyle studio, coaching women in body movement and exotic dance, observing my clients’ progress from fear to empowerment. I completed a life coach certification in 2007. I wrote a coaching program for women and went on to take my Diploma in English to improve my writing prowess.
I also undertook a psychology degree to value add as a life coach. While doing my degree, I went to Aware to be trained as a helpliner.
Still, I felt I was not ready. There was always another course I need to take, another item still not done.
In my mind, I had to be perfect.
Only then, I am ready to be a coach.
‘Have no fear of perfection – you’ll never reach it.’
– Salvador Dali
Over the last two years, I met my psychotherapist friend three times to catch up. Each time, the conversation takes a similar turn.
When am I going to get started?
I gave a lot of reasons why the time was not right. By the third time it happened, I was starting to feel embarrassed. Acutely so. There is only so many times you can say the same thing before it starts to sound ridiculous to yourself too.
Bless his heart. He finally nailed me to a corner. Asking me how I wanted to get started and what needs to be done. Then he made sure I nailed the tasks to my diary. He needed commitment from me. To myself.
In that conversation, he was good enough to coach me, to push me to taking action.
As you can see, it worked. ๐
โNothing happens until something moves.โ
– Albert Einstein
“If you have the guts to keep making mistakes, your wisdom and intelligence leap forward with huge momentum.”
– Holly Near
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ON your Joylight! ๐
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- Need someone to talk to?
- Seek clarity to your thoughts?
- Refocus on your life goals?โโ
- Or to resolve a challenging issue in your life?
You are not alone.
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